It never ceases to amaze me how people can be. I feel I have been very nice to Ruben through all of this. yesterday finding out that the checking account we shared is now in the negative and he has taken his name off the account and now I am held responsible for it. How nice of him and to find out that he actually did not pay the car insurance after I thanked him for doing so and he agreeing with me so I did not plan for that one. Today I found out that he now has legal representation with legal aid. It suprises me that he qualifies for it with out having the kids with him. I don't know?????? I don't know what his game is, I tired of trying to figure it out. I think the nicey nicey is over. He still doesn't want to pay child support, he thinks that this is all my doing by leaving and I put myself in this position. Hummm! You know he can hord all his money all he wants, I have uncontional love and my heart is free and happy. I go through everyday now knowing that I don't have to be put down by someone. What a great way to live life.....